〜手前
because of (how it would look), having said so
Verb plain (often た-form) / Noun + の + 手前
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手前 gives a reason based on face: because of what you've already said or done, or because of who is watching, you can't act otherwise. 自分から言い出した手前、今さらやめられない, "since it was my idea, I can't back out now".
There are two common shapes:
- 〜た手前: having said or done something (言った手前, 約束した手前).
- Person + の手前: in front of someone you need to look good for (子どもの手前, 部下の手前).
The second half is usually something you must or can't do: わけにはいかない, 〜られない, しかない.
It's close to 以上 (N2), but 手前 specifically adds embarrassment and appearances. Literally, it means "this side, in front of".
Examples
自分から言い出した手前、今さらやめられない。
Since it was my idea in the first place, I can't back out now.
子どもの手前、泣くわけにはいかなかった。
With the children watching, I couldn't let myself cry.
大丈夫だと言った手前、助けを求めにくい。
Having said I was fine, it's hard to ask for help.
部下の手前、弱音は吐けない。
I can't complain in front of my staff.
約束した手前、行かないわけにはいかない。
Having promised, I can't not go.