〜がましい
smacking of (unpleasantly), sounding like
Noun / Verb ます-stem + がましい
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がましい means an attitude or remark has an unpleasant flavour of something: 恩着せがましい言い方, "a patronising way of speaking, as if doing you a favour".
It combines with only a handful of words, so learn them as vocabulary:
- 恩着せがましい: making a show of doing a favour.
- 言い訳がましい: sounding like excuses.
- 押し付けがましい: pushy.
- 未練がましい: unable to let go.
- 差し出がましい: presumptuous, forward. 差し出がましいようですが is a polite way to offer an unasked-for opinion.
It's always critical, or humble when used about yourself.
Examples
恩着せがましい言い方をするな。
Don't talk as if you're doing me a favour.
言い訳がましいことは言いたくない。
I don't want to say anything that sounds like an excuse.
押し付けがましいアドバイスはやめてほしい。
I wish you'd stop giving pushy advice.
差し出がましいようですが、一言よろしいでしょうか。
I hope I'm not being presumptuous, but may I say something?
未練がましいことを言うようだけど、もう一度会いたい。
I know it sounds like I can't let go, but I want to see you again.